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When Promises Take Longer Than We Expect

Mike Zdorowdelivers a message at The Gathering Place Church in Palm Beach Gardens

Meeting God in the Middle of the Day

I’ve been reflecting on a question that weighs on my heart and I suspect it’s on yours: what happens when God’s promises take longer than we expect? Maybe you sensed a call in your youth group or in college, and you believed something amazing lay ahead. Yet seasons stretch on, prayers seem unanswered, and disappointment reshapes our expectations.

Hospitality and the Unexpected Visit

In Genesis 18, Abraham is busy with ordinary tasks—running to welcome three strangers, offering water for their dusty feet, and preparing a meal under the oak of Mamre. He doesn’t know these visitors will speak a word that changes everything. Often God meets us not on mountain peaks but in the middle of our routines: at our kitchen table, beside a well, even in the shade of a tent.

“One of them said, ‘I will surely return to you in due season, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.’ Sarah was listening at the tent entrance.” (Genesis 18:10–11)

Sarah’s Laughter and Our Disappointments

Sarah overhears a promise that feels impossible—she and Abraham are beyond childbearing age, 25 years have passed since the first promise. Her quiet laughter echoes our own: “I’ll believe it when I see it.” That laughter isn’t rebellion but a season-worn heart that has lived with unmet hopes. We know her instinct—she’s right, humanly speaking.

Is Anything Too Wonderful for the Lord?

God turns the focus back to Himself: “Is anything too wonderful for the Lord?” He doesn’t shame Sarah or withdraw His word. He reminds her—and us—of His unchanging character. While our circumstances may shift, our doubts may multiply, God’s faithfulness endures. Everything else may change—opinions, health, bank accounts—but His love remains steadfast.

From Human Limitations to Divine Possibilities

We tend to become experts on our own limitations, cataloging reasons why nothing will change. But this story isn’t about what Sarah can do; it’s about what God can do. Human responsibility takes us only so far. Divine possibilities arise when we trust that God’s prevenient grace is already at work before we recognize it, that His sanctifying grace is healing and transforming us now, and that His perfecting grace will finish what He has started.

Embracing Hope in the Waiting

Even in the waiting, God is still at work—in your life and in our church. We’ve seen seasons of transition and loss, and it’s tempting to settle into gratitude that quietly shifts to resignation. But God isn’t finished with us. He is opening doors we can’t yet see and preparing a future full of possibilities. So if you find yourself standing in the tent today, uncertain and wondering, remember: God sees you, He hears your laughter and your tears, and He will fulfill every promise in His perfect timing.

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